Do you ever feel like you have one personwho reads your blog, just to stab and dig at all your flaws? Just to comment and say things to bring you down?
I have one of those readers.
And it's making me like bloggingless and less.
I'll be honest, I found your blog while on the hunt for the mormon bachelor thing (I don't remember the specifics, I don't read it anymore) but I really like your blog. You are adorable! And I read *hers* too. You may hate hearing this, she's cute too.
BUT, I do feel your pain. I dated some dude and he was a cheater. His new girlfriend treated me like I came between them when in actuality, I'd (so I thought) been with him for 8+ MONTHS. I dropped him, she stayed with him for 3 years. He cheated on her, she came to me for comfort and we were great friends for a few months. She got back with him and she didn't tell him we were friends cause she was ashamed. She eventually picked fights with me and dropped me too.
She haunts my Twitter, stalks my blog and even goes as far as chatting up/befriending someone of my friends that I introduced her to. Some of my BEST friends feel indifferently about me because of some of the things she has said. What friends they are...
Me and my husband joke that she wants to wear my skin and be me. If I blog about something I thought was awesome, she is doing it the next week and telling everyone about it. She acts like she is so damn creative and original. I think she is a sloppy carbon copy. Aside from my sob story, I DO feel your pain. I love new readers, I love having people to relate to and knowing that my ramblings are heard. But it sucks when it feels like the new girl is harshing on you. Hold your head up high, don't stop blogging, please. You probably don't see me as a follower but I have you in my Google Reader. Wow, this would have been better as an email. I didn't expect it to get this long. Sorry.
Ok, I don't know if this has anything to do with me...
But, my last comment on your "D" Word post was just a response. I didn't mean for it to sound as though I was throwing anything in your face, or anything like that.
I was just TRYING to say that you, and your mom, (and everyone) deserves to have someone who loves them, completes them, and makes them happy... and shared MY experience that it REALLY does happen. I know what it's like to date douchebags, or to get scared of love and run. And, I was jtust trying to say that when you find THE ONE that everything you thought you knew about love changes... you're not scared, and they become a part of you.
That's all. I'm sorry if it came across any other way.
7 comments:
OMG, Callie, which bitch am I gonna have to choke? Because i just can't handle you not blogging. That shit just ain't gonna fly.
xoxo
Estelle
We would never!
i never comment, although i do enjoy reading [: but, i know EXACTLY who you are talking about. they are getting on my nerves too, callie.
some people just need to bug off.
I'll be honest, I found your blog while on the hunt for the mormon bachelor thing (I don't remember the specifics, I don't read it anymore) but I really like your blog. You are adorable!
And I read *hers* too. You may hate hearing this, she's cute too.
BUT, I do feel your pain. I dated some dude and he was a cheater. His new girlfriend treated me like I came between them when in actuality, I'd (so I thought) been with him for 8+ MONTHS. I dropped him, she stayed with him for 3 years. He cheated on her, she came to me for comfort and we were great friends for a few months. She got back with him and she didn't tell him we were friends cause she was ashamed. She eventually picked fights with me and dropped me too.
She haunts my Twitter, stalks my blog and even goes as far as chatting up/befriending someone of my friends that I introduced her to. Some of my BEST friends feel indifferently about me because of some of the things she has said. What friends they are...
Me and my husband joke that she wants to wear my skin and be me. If I blog about something I thought was awesome, she is doing it the next week and telling everyone about it. She acts like she is so damn creative and original. I think she is a sloppy carbon copy.
Aside from my sob story, I DO feel your pain. I love new readers, I love having people to relate to and knowing that my ramblings are heard. But it sucks when it feels like the new girl is harshing on you.
Hold your head up high, don't stop blogging, please.
You probably don't see me as a follower but I have you in my Google Reader.
Wow, this would have been better as an email. I didn't expect it to get this long. Sorry.
Callie, girl, you're amazing! Your blog is inspiring and so fun to read. Don't let other opinions tell you otherwise!
Amen to Estelle's comment :)
Ok, I don't know if this has anything to do with me...
But, my last comment on your "D" Word post was just a response. I didn't mean for it to sound as though I was throwing anything in your face, or anything like that.
I was just TRYING to say that you, and your mom, (and everyone) deserves to have someone who loves them, completes them, and makes them happy... and shared MY experience that it REALLY does happen. I know what it's like to date douchebags, or to get scared of love and run. And, I was jtust trying to say that when you find THE ONE that everything you thought you knew about love changes... you're not scared, and they become a part of you.
That's all.
I'm sorry if it came across any other way.
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